March 31, 2009
Owh by the way..Last week, papa already got what he mengidam most.. Melaram je la kejenya.. Tgh seronok la tu.. I'll post about it laterla.. lupa nk tgkp gambar plak..
Anyway.. event tentative for last weekend were:
1. Kenduri Insp Sharul (cousin)
2. Syima nikah (Mosque in front of Jusco Wangsa Maju)
3. Earth hour at putrajaya
1. Kenduri Syima (relative)
2. Groceries hunting as mama and dhia stays in Bangi for a week.
Here comes the pics. Happy viewing....
The pelamin at sharul wedding
Pengantin (dari kejauhan sbb pelamin tinggi..)
My beloved cousin yg gila2
Makcik yg sungguh sporting
Along yang cantik
All of us
and my princess
Mosque in front jusco wangsa maju
Syima.. so lovely
My princess again...lalok
Earth hour (putrajaya..15min drive away from my house..)
Owh.. tidak mahu mengupload pics on sunday.. byk muka sendiri shj.. ngeeee saya upload dua shj lah.. at syima wedding
my princess again
Abang.. cepatla balik.. kita g kenduri sama2 kt kuala kangsar minggu depan..
March 27, 2009
Us sejurus sebelum bergerak ke PD
the pengantin, sharul
our pakciks and makciks with abg and papa
erm.. time mamam dan tgk pengntin tk tangkap gambar pun.. sbb sibuk dukung dhia. dh balik tu, singgah Ulu Bendul jap sbb nk pekena mee goreng dia yg lazat tu..
model ulu bendul
papa skodeng budak mandi
kenapa semua menyeget ni
babysitter of the day
Mama-dhia-adik-mel(kawan adik)- angah
My Nike shoes (aritu ada ckp nk upload.. lupa. Surrender pakai heel, tukar time singgah pantai PD lagi)
Model Ulu Bendul (category couple berusia)
Model Ulu Bendul (category couple muda.. hiks)
Hasilnya... Insan yg kepenatan
Erm.. esok nk g kenduri lagi.. makan je la keje saya.. bila la projek diet nk bermula ni.. huwaa.. nk jadi sushmita sen balik (muahahaha ala2 perasan ni..) Skrg ni gomokssss.. sedey sedey..
Anyway.. happy weekend peeps!!
March 26, 2009
Nanti nk solek Bella lagi.. kita buat satu-satu.. owh nk beli wangian teddy tales dkt lovely lace.. suka sgt bila bau dlm kereta.. tenang dan relaks
March 24, 2009
That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; I had lost my heart to a lovely girl called Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, 30% shares of my company and the car. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.
Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a months time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset.
I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest.. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me; she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.
Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished. Then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death does us apart.
Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote:
"I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart"
The small details of our lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, the property, the bank balance that matters. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
Relationships are made not to exploit, not to be broken.
We teach some by what we say
We teach some more by what we do
But we teach most by what we are
Laki bini ini asalnya 2 individu asing yang saling tidak mengenali. Atas takdir tuhan dipertemukan dan aqad nikah telah menyatukan kita.
TAPI.......tahukah kau apa yang isterimu selalu lakukan untukmu,dan fikirlah sejenak apa pula yang kau berikan untuknya.....
KALA kau tiada duit, bukankah magic David Copperfield bila tiba2 kau buka wallet ada duit pulak di dalamnya? Tahukah kau yang isterimu sentiasa curi2 membuka wallet untuk mengecek "Ada duitkah suamiku?"
TAPI bila kau ada duit, wah! wah! kau siap boleh tanya lagi bini kau "Ada duit ke?" sedangkan itukan kewajipan kau untuk memberinya nafkah kan?
Tahukah kau wahai suami, tiap2 malam isterimu akan terbangun dari tidurnya dan perkara pertama yang diingat ialah suaminya, lantas terus si isteri menjenguk suaminya di sebelah, di kucup dahi suaminya, diusap rambutnya, penuh kasih sayang dan belas kasihan.
TAPI yang kau berinya hanyalah dengkuran kadang2 siap kentut lagi..Cissss!!
Tahukah kau wahai suami, kalau kau balik lewat malam sampai jam 4-5 pagi atas alasan kerja atau kau suka2 nak lepak ngan kawan2, bini kau yang dirumah tu tak lena tidur, selagi kau tak balik selagi tulah mata tak leh pejam.
TAPI yang kau tahu bersembang aje sampai pagi, langsung tak ingat bini, dahlah balik lambat esoknya selagi tak masuk Zohor tak reti2 nak bangun, dah bangun tahu nak makan aje...
Tahu tak kau wahai suami, setiap kali isteri mu menggosok bajumu apa yang sentiasa terlintas di fikirannya ialah "Handsome tak laki aku bila pakai baju ni?"
Tapi kau bila dah hansome sikit mula hidung tinggi nak mengorat lagi...
Tahu tak kau wahai suami, isteri tu tak mintak banyak, cuma pujilah dia sekali-sekala, peluklah dia setiap pagi dan malam sebelum tidur, peluk yang setakat pelukan sayang sahaja..bukan dengan harapan dapat "apa-apa", hadiahkanlah dia sekali-sekala walaupun setakat coklat sekeping, picitlah bahunya sekali-sekala dan kalau nak tidur tu, selimutkanlah dia, sebab sebenarnya, bini tu selagi laki dia tak lelap mata dia hanya tidur2 ayam sahaja...
INI YANG BEST NISatu lagi, suami, kalau korang nak tahu, sebaik sahaja saksi kata SAH!!!! Tuhan telah kurniakan 6, 7, 8 sensor kat isteri sebab itulah dia orang tahu korang buat apa kat belakang dia, tak yah guna spy...dia orang musti tahu punya....
Hargailah bini dan bakal bini korang, sebagaimana korang hargai kereta korang, PS2 korang dan lain-lain.
There are times when you think you still have time to spend with the one you love most..
There are times when you think you still have time to tell him/her that you love him/her..
There are times when you think you can always fight with him/her because you know there are still chances to fix the things well back again...
There are times when you think you can survive without him/her but the truth is you can't..
So please.. please appreciate everyone that you love before they gone forever and left you in regret and sadness for the rest of your life..
Al-fatihah for Mejar S.
March 16, 2009
We went to Zoo Malacca last saturday (berjalan aje kerjanya..).We did spent some quality time there. Dhia also realy enjoyed the trip. As for dhia, she had a chance to see her mr. tiger (I keep telling the bedtime stories related to mr. tiger. i dont know why.. but it seems to excite her). Owh.. i did stand a chance to register for election..SPR opened a booth at the zoo for public to register.. yay.. ada gak faedahnya g zoo ni.. hihiihi. Anyway, here are some pics... All pics taken by my W960i.. sbb semua pun tk bwk camera.. tk plan pun nk g zoo ni.. tibe-tibe aje.. so better than nothing la kan..
Anak dobot saya - baby (owh saya panggil dia boss skrg.. dia sungguh marah)
Me with mama and dhia
Dhia and her babah
ala lupa nama... but cute
Went for kenduri at simpang pertang. My roommie bro getting married. My roomie tk kawen lagi.. beri permission for her bro to kawen dulu. Erm.. sgt kenyang membaham ayam golek Pantai Dalam.. diorder khas dari Pantai Dalam..cedapp...craving for this quite a long time tp boikot tknk beli sbb cepat sgt naik harga.. mula2 rm15, then rm16, n now rm17! so boikot tknk beli(walaupun cedap nk mati) tp FREE?? why not.. hikss
Dr. Along and me.... Dhia tgh usha wedding cake!