I love u Bibie Sayang...................

Copy dari blog Moon. Sedih sangat.

Pesanan dari Shamrulismawi Abah BlackPearl, ayah kepada Allahyarham Faris Nur Daniel buat semua ibu bapa...




Buat kawan-kawan semua.... Antara perkara yang kita boleh jadikan pengajaran dari kisah Allahyarham Faris Nur Daniel...
1. Bila anak merengek bangun malam, janganlah marah dia. Jangan merungut kenapalah kena bangun malammmmm.. mengantuk.. etc... That might be the last night that he/she doe...s that.

2. Bila anak mintak mainan atau sesuatu kalau mampu, kita cubalah berikan. That might be the last night that he/she ask for something.

3. Bila anak nak susu, berikan dgn penuh kasih sayang... That might be the last day that he/she drinks it. Sama ada susu ibu atau susu formula, dua dua sama je. Pemberian dari ibu/ayah kpd anak.


4. Bila anak buas dan nakal, sabarlah. That might be the last day that we can see him/her being active.

5. Bila suapkan anak makan, suaplah dgn penuh kasih sayang... That might be the last food that he/she eats.

Bottom line is......Hargailah masa anda bersama anak-anak...Kita tak tau bila kita atau dia yang akan "pergi" dulu.

 

cuti-cuti Malaysia

Ngeee...jum cuti-cuti Malaysia

27-29 February 2012





**picture googled

J e n g k a

Sejuk betul kalau musim hujan di Jengka. Dengan ayaq kolah yang sejokkkkk...

Meh layan gambaq

Really nyenyak anak daraku tidur berkelambu....

Aikkk 3 gambar je....Nak buek camno...ni je yg sempat edit..kekeke

Beautiful words.......

The Buzzard, the Bat, and the Bumblebee....

THE BUZZARD

If you put a buzzard in a pen that is 6 feet by 8 feet

and is entirely open at the top,

the bird, in spite of its ability to fly,

will be an absolute prisoner.

The reason is that a buzzard always begins a flight from the ground

with a run of 10 to 12 feet.

Without space to run, as is its habit, it will not even attempt to fly,

but will remain a prisoner for life in a small jail with no top.

THE BAT

The ordinary bat that flies around at night,

a remarkable nimble creature in the air,

cannot take off from a level place.

If it is placed on the floor or flat ground, all it can do

is shuffle about helplessly and,

no doubt, painfully, until it reaches some slight elevation

from which it can throw itself into the air.

Then, at once, it takes off like a flash.

THE BUMBLEBEE

A bumblebee, if dropped into an open tumbler,

will be there until it dies, unless it is taken out.

It never sees the means of escape at the top,

but persists in trying to find some way out

through the sides near the bottom.

It will seek a way where none exists,

until it completely destroys itself.

PEOPLE

 

In many ways, we are like the buzzard, the bat, and the bumblebee.

We struggle about with all our problems and frustrations,

never realizing that all we have to do is look up!

That's the answer, the escape route and the solution to any problem...

just look up!

Sorrow looks back,

Worry looks around,

But faith looks up!

Live simply,

love generously,

care deeply,

speak kindly, and

trust in our Creator,

who loves us.



Mutiara kata

"Bekerja bukan untuk mencari salah...

tetapi bekerja untuk menyelesaikan masalah"

Alhamdulillah..memang betul :)

sedih

Hati agak sentap..

Baru je nak happy-happy..

Sentap sebab kesalahan itu bukan salah saya..Memang bukan salah saya.

Tapi saya yang di tuduh..mungkin sebab saya orang baru eh.. Orang baru kan tak tahu apa-apa.

Sedih. Balik ni nak nangis dlm kete (sambil layan soundtrack Ombak Rindu)

Terbaek ...huhuhuhu :( 

Setahun sudah

Rupa-rupanya sudah setahun saya bertugas di unit baru. The progress? Alhamdulillah. So far so good .. At the beginning...it's tough.. Rasa mahu putus asa pun ada. Ditambah pula rindu  yang menggebu pada rakan-rakan ofis lama. Going to office daily feels like dying...(is that really terible?). But please... you have to work hard to catch up. Build repo with new buddies. Learn and learn from them. So from zero to semi heroin la skrg ni.. agak2nya la. Dulu buat management sampai 5 tahun...tiba-tiba masuk teknikal...tak ke naya tu...huhuhu..mmg naya.. hehe

Alhamdulillah now... dipermudahkan urusan saya ...(doa saya setiap hari). Anak-anak buah yang boleh buat geng..rakan2 seperjuangan baru yang boleh membimbing. Alhamdulillah... Allah memberikan saya nikmat kehidupan yang sempurna. Cabaran kerja jangan cerita la...just let's make  sure ourselves ready to face the challenge..and lotsa doa..InsyaAllah..Dipermudahkan urusannya..

Alhamdulillah juga dalam masa setahun ini..pelbagai peristiwa manis telah dikecapi. Fresh from oven...my husband passed his exam with flying colours. I'm so proud of u. Study smart for this coming semester ye yang...i sentiasa doakan u...So starting from this week, my abang is not available on Monday till Wednesday..nasib ada Las..kalau tak...saya and dhia akan ketakutan dalam keberanian la duk berdua je..keke




current workplace...tepi highway..keke laluan utama la tu...so kena keje keje keje..kekeke



Raya 2011




Our dinner nite



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you gurls....

muahsssssssss

xoxo

3 bilik

cer teka...cer teka...

mana satu master bedroom...dhia' room and guest room...

kekeke

silly question heh... hehe

Rumahku syurgaku again...

Mesti ada yang dh bosan tgk saya update perihal deko-deko rumah. Itu adalah minat saya dulu, kini dan selamanya..saya suka menambah-nambah dan mendeko rumah. Biarpun tak sekreatif Eric Leong atau ribuan house designer..tapi kepuasan mendeko rumah sendiri..tak terhingga..Yelah...sewaktu tinggal di apartment kami yang kecil dulu pun sudah penuh dengan deko dan accessories. Bila mahu disewa....tenant cukup berminat..dan terus setuju menyewanya. Seperti jatuh cinta pandang pertama. Siapa mahu menolak melihat rumah yang comel dan bersih. Siap kitchen cabinetnya + dapur + tong gas + curtain yang sedondon di dapur...lampu-lampu yang cantik pada pandangan saya la kan.  juga aircond di master bedroomnya... sofa pun saya tinggal kan...blind curtain dan rack2 ikea di laundry area...semua tersusun cantik..menggoda pasangan yang akan menikah april ini. Sesuai untuk yang mahu memulakan hidup @ family kecil. Cuci kaki saja tenant saya melangkah masuk. Mereka hanya perlu order sahaja a few furnitures and plasma tv 42 inch...and nah...... walla walla... everything seems to be perfecto..

Sekarang... tumpuan berpindah ke rumah baru. Small things can make wonder. Let me shows something new in our casa..sekadar untuk mencuci mata sendiri di kemudian hari dan berkongsi minat...tidak salah kan kita tjk sket2...


Bila la saya dapat tukar semua botol2 itew kepada botol Tupperware.. Satu botol sebulan pun boleh la kan...baru ada satu...huhuhu



Suka lihat rumah yang bersih, kemas tersusun. Walaupun suka design modern tapi Country juga menggoda jiwa...letak sket la unsur-unsur Country

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New items from Romantika again...hehehe




Fresh and real plant ok...courtesy from mama




Close up......



Saya ada beli pokok kemboja kacuk,berbunga purple...juga pokok cili...pokok limau purut.. and pokok hiasan dpn pintu depan...nanti saya update picture pokok2 ye..ini je yg sempat snap mlm tadi...

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Btw...dah tambah standing fans dkt washing machine tu...barula coffee break dengan angin sepoi-sepoi bahasa




Tempat sudu pun baru rembat di Romantika. RM10 aje.. untuk tidak perlu bangun kalau terlupa sudu lauk or bubur...hehehe...



boleh lepak2 di area sini sambil memakan ini

dan

Nanti kalau saya usik2 lagi...saya update lagi...tapi mmg berkira-kira nk tjkkan collection pokok pulak..later-later ai tunjuk ye.. till then

daaaaaaaaaa

Beautiful love story

This is the beautiful love story between Zainab bint Muhammad and Abu El'Ass ibn Rabee'.


Zainab was the daughter of the Prophet (PBUH) and her cousin Abu El'Ass, was Khadija's (RA) nephew. He was one of the nobles of the Quraish, and the Prophet (SAW) loved him very much.



One day Abu El'Ass went to the Prophet (SAW) before he had received his mission of Prophethood and said: "I want to marry your eldest daughter". So the Prophet replied: "I must ask her first". He (SAW) went to Zainab and asked her: "Your cousin came to me and he wishes to marry you, do you accept him as your husband?" Her face turned red with bashfulness and she smiled.



So Zainab married Abu El'Ass, the beginning of a great love story. They had two children; Ali and Omama.

Then Muhammad became a Prophet while Abu El'Ass was away from Makkah. Abu El'Ass returned to find his wife a Muslim. When he first came back, his wife said "I have great news for you". He stood up and left her. Zainab was surprised and followed him as she said, "My father became a Prophet and I have become a Muslim". He replied, "Why didn't you tell me first?" Hence a big problem began between the two; a problem of religion and belief.

She told him, "I wasn't going to disbelieve in my father and his message, he is not a liar, and he is "The Honest and Trustworthy". I'm not the only believer; my mother and my sisters became Muslims, my cousin Ali ibn Abi Taleb became a Muslim, your cousin Othman ibn Affan became a Muslim, and your friend, Abu Bakr, became a Muslim".

He replied, "Well, as for me, I don't want people to say, 'he let down his people and his forefathers to please his wife'. And I am not accusing your father of anything". Then he said, "So will you excuse me and understand?" She replied, "Who will excuse and understand you if I don't? I will stay beside you and help you until you reach the truth." And she kept her word for 20 years.



Abu El'Ass remained an unbeliever, and then came the migration. Zainab went to her father and asked him for the permission to stay with her husband. The Prophet (SAW) replied, "Stay with your husband and children".



So Zainab stayed in Makkah, until the battle of Badr occurred. Abu El'Ass was to fight in the army of Quraish against the Muslims. For Zainab, it meant that her husband will be fighting her father, a time Zainab had always feared. She kept crying out: "O Allah, I fear one day the sun may rise and my children become orphans or I lose my father".



So the battle started, and ended in victory for the Muslims. Abu El'Ass was captured by the Muslims, and news of this reached Makkah. Zainab asked, "What did my father do?" They told her, "The Muslims won". So she prayed to Allah, thanking Him. Then she asked: "What did my husband do?" They said: "He was captured". She said, "I'll send a payment to release him". She didn't own anything of much value, so she took off her mother's necklace, and sent it with Abu El'Ass's brother to the Prophet.

While the Prophet (SAW) was sitting, taking payments and releasing captives, he saw Khadija's necklace. He held it up and asked: "Whose payment is this?" They said: "Abu El'Ass ibn Rabee". He cried and said "This is Khadija's necklace". As soon as the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) saw that necklace, he had a feeling of extreme compassion and his heart palpitated for the great memory. The Companions who were present there gazed in amazement having being captivated by the magnificence of the situation.



After a long silence, the Messenger of Allah (SAW) stood up and said "People, this man is my in-law, should I release him? And do you accept the return of this necklace to my daughter?" They answered in unison "Yes, Messenger of Allah".

The Prophet (SAW) gave the necklace to Abu El'Ass and said to him: "Tell Zainab not to give away Khadija''s necklace". Then he (SAW) said, "Abu El'Ass, Can we speak privately?" He took him aside and said, "Allah has ordered me to separate between a Muslim and a disbeliever, so could you return my daughter to me?" Abu El'Ass reluctantly agreed.



Zainab stood on the gates of Makkah waiting for the arrival of Abu El'Ass. When he finally came he said, "I am going away". She asked, "Where to?" He replied, "It is not me who is going, it is you. You are going to your father. We must separate because you are a Muslim". She implored him, "Will you become a Muslim and come with me?" But he refused.



So Zainab took her son and daughter and traveled to Madinah, and for 6 years she refused to remarry, hoping that one day Abu El'Ass would come.

After 6 years, Abu El'Ass was traveling in a caravan from Makkah to Syria. During the journey, he was intercepted by some of the Prophet's companions. He escaped and asked for Zainab's home. He knocked on her door shortly before the dawn prayer. She opened the door and asked him "Did you become a Muslim?" He whispered "No, I come as a fugitive". She implored him once more "Can you become a Muslim?" Again his answer was a negative. "Do not worry." She said, "Welcome my cousin, welcome, the father of Ali and Omama".



After the Prophet (SAW) prayed the dawn prayer in congregation with the people, they heard a voice from the back of the mosque, "I have freed Abu El'Ass ibn Rabee". Zainab had granted Abu El'Ass' freedom. The Prophet (SAW)asked, "Have you heard what I heard?" They all said, "Yes, Messenger of Allah". Zainab said, "He is my cousin and the father of my children and I have freed him". The Prophet (SAW) stood up and said, "O people, I declare that this man was a very good son-in-law, he never broke his promise, and neither did he tell lies. So if you accept, I will return his money back and let him go. If you refuse it's your decision and I will not blame you for it." The companions agreed, "We will give him his money". So the Prophet (SAW) said to Zainab, "We have freed the one you have freed, O Zainab." Then he (SAW) went to her and told her "be generous to him, he is your cousin and the father of your children, but don't let him get near you, he is prohibited for you." She replied, "Sure, father, I'll do as you say".



She went in and told her husband, "O Abu El'Ass, didn't you miss us at all? Won't you become a Muslim and stay with us?" But he refused. Abu El'Ass then took the money and returned to Makkah. Once he returned he stood up and announced, "O people, here is your money. Is there anything left?" They replied, "No, Abu El'Ass, there is nothing left, thanks a lot." So Abu El'Ass said, "I testify that there is no god but Allah, and Muhammed is His Messenger." Then he went back to Madinah and ran to the Prophet (SAW) as he said, "Dear Prophet, you freed me yesterday, and today I say that I testify there is no god but Allah and you are His Messenger." He asked the Prophet, "Will you give me the permission to go back to Zainab?" The Prophet (SAW) smiled and said, "Come with me"; he took him to Zainab's house and knocked on her door. The Prophet (SAW) said, "O Zainab, your cousin came to me and asked if he can return to you". Just like 20 years before, her face turned red with bashfulness and she smiled.



The sad thing was, a year after this incident, Zainab died. Abu El'Ass shed hot tears because of her death and drove those who were around him to tears. The Messenger of Allah (SAW) came with eyes full of tears and a heart full of sorrow. Zainab's death reminded him of the death of his wife, Khadija. He told the women, who gathered around Zainab's corpse, "Wash her three times and use camphor in the third wash." He performed funeral prayers on her and followed her final resting place. Abu El'Ass returned to his children, Ali and Omama. Kissing them and wetting them with his tears, he remembered the face of his departed darling.

May Allah be pleased with Zainab, the Prophet's daughter! May He reward her with Paradise for her patience, endurance and struggle!



Abu El'Ass would cry so profusely that the people saw the Prophet himself weeping and calming him down. Abu El'Ass would say, "By Allah, I can't stand life anymore without Zainab".



He died one year after Zainab's death.



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Aik....ada lagi?

thank you yang......

Happy anniversary to us

“Ya Tuhan kami, anugerahkanlah kepada kami pasangan kami dan keturunan kami sebagai penyenang hati (kami), dan jadikanlah kami pemimpin orang-orang bertaqwa” (Al-Furqan 25:74″)

Our wedding anniversary brings to mind

The happiness and joy you’ve brought to me,

Sweet memories--the laughter and the tears,

Devoted love you give abundantly.



The place I want to be is close to you;

There’s ecstasy and peace in your embrace.

I know that I can cope with what life brings,

As long as I wake up to see your face.



You’re all I ever wanted, and much more.

I look at you and I still get a thrill.

Our marriage is the best thing in my life;

I love you deeply, madly, and I always will

*picture taken from my BB. Agak blur di situ..

Tiqiu yangggg.....

Avillion Admiral Cove, Port Dickson

                       This is unplanned, short and sweet vacation
                       For us to celebrate our anniversary..
                       And dhia to enjoy her swimming pool moment..
                       Enough said. Let the picture do the talking ya..

Spacious room..with a coach to lay down

Dhia decided to sleep here.. she amazed with this coach

2 super single bed is the room available for us

Intoducing our new family member..tam and mimina

modern concept toilet

next day : breakfast everyone?

morning scenery

mine

dhia enjoying her cereal

full

babah with his food

hurry up mama....its getting late!!!

captured by dhia

captured by pak guard

happy face

where you going baby??

swimming pool mama... :)

yihaaa.........



tata avillion...till we meet again :)